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Evening Windown Flow for Better Sleep for Parents + Kids

September 25, 20253 min read

Let’s talk about something that often gets overlooked but can completely transform your health, energy, and even your fertility after 35: your evening routine.

I know what you might be thinking—“Who has time for that?” Or maybe you’re picturing some 15-step ritual with candles, herbal teas, and 30 minutes of journaling. Nope. That’s not what we’re doing here.

Instead, I want you to think of evenings as a rhythm—something predictable and repeatable. For your nervous system (and your kids’), rhythm equals safety. And when your nervous system feels safe, you sleep deeper, your hormones reset, and you wake up with real energy.

Why Evenings Matter for Your Health

The way you close your day sets the tone for your sleep, your stress levels, and even your fertility. For women 35+, disrupted sleep doesn’t just mean grogginess—it means higher inflammation, less fertility support, and more stress reactivity.

And if you’re a parent, you know poor sleep shows up in your kids as meltdowns, cranky mornings, or immune dips during school season. A chaotic evening = a dysregulated family nervous system.

The 3 Phases of a Nervous System Wind Down

Here’s how to reset your body and your family’s rhythm in just a few minutes:

  1. Decompression
    Shake off the day with gentle movements—cat cows, easy twists, or one of my favorites, the face-washing stretch. These aren’t about “cracking” or forcing anything; they’re about telling your body the day is done.

  2. Transition Cues
    Dim the lights, soften your voice, diffuse lavender, or just signal calm through your environment. Your nervous system takes cues from what it sees, hears, and smells.

  3. Connection
    Keep it short and simple. A bedtime story, a reflection question like “What felt good today?” or even a few deep breaths together. Connection builds safety—and safety builds better sleep.

The 7-Minute Family Flow

Here’s your new evening rhythm:

  • Minute 1: Devices away, lights dimmed.

  • Minutes 2–3: Gentle stretches—arms overhead, shoulders rolling, or a twist.

  • Minutes 4–5: Breathwork. For kids, humming a favorite song. For adults, the 4-7-8 breath: inhale 4, hold 7, exhale 8.

  • Minute 6: One reflection question: “What felt good today?”

  • Minute 7: Add a soft sound cue—nature sounds, binaural beats, or a calming song.

It’s simple. It’s repeatable. And that’s the point—your nervous system doesn’t need more gadgets or hacks. It needs consistent safety signals.

Why This Matters for Women After 35

For women navigating preconception or pregnancy, rest is when your body prioritizes hormone balance, egg quality, and repair. And for parents, modeling a healthy wind down teaches your kids that rest isn’t optional—it’s normal.

So here’s my challenge to you: What’s one cue you already use in your evenings? Maybe brushing your teeth or dimming the lights. And what’s one new rhythm you can try this week with your family?

If you’re ready to make this even easier, grab my free Structural Reset Guide. Inside you’ll find quick posture flows, sleep position hacks, and breath practices that support deeper rest—for you and your whole family.

Because here’s the truth: evenings don’t have to end in chaos. They can end in calm. And calm changes everything

Dr. Anjali Agrawal's ultimate purpose for growing and expanding her online wellness business and chiropractic practice is deeply rooted in her family, comprising her husband and two young daughters.

-DR. ANJALI AGRAWAL

Dr. Anjali Agrawal's ultimate purpose for growing and expanding her online wellness business and chiropractic practice is deeply rooted in her family, comprising her husband and two young daughters.

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Dr. Anjali offers a holistic approach to wellness through chiropractic and nutrition. With expertise in gentle chiropractic techniques, physiotherapy, holistic lifestyle advice, and so much more, she's on a mission to help people Move Well, Eat Well, and Live Well.

We are based in the San Francisco Bay Area, CA but you can often find Dr. Anjali traveling all across the states teaching and empowering others to get BACK IN BALANCE.

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